How being fired can be great and why you should experience it

How being fired can be great and why you should experience itHow being fired can be great and why you should experience itMaybe youve been there you get called into your bosss office and are asked to sit down because theres something theyd like to discuss.Likely theres someone from HR or the C-suite also in the room. However, its once your boss starts talking that you realize with what feels like a punch to the gut that youre being fired.Perhaps you knew this was coming because youd seen the writing on the walls. Or perhaps this came out of nowhere and youre left feeling shocked, angry, and sad.No matter the reason for your firing, whether its because of performance problems, management issues, a company acquisition, or more, youre likely still reeling and trying to understand what just happened.So let me be the first to say - CongratulationsNow, before you think Im some sadist glorying in someone elses pain, let me explain why I think being fired is one of the best things that can happen to you and why everyone should be fired at least once in their lives.It reminds you to stay humbleIn a world where the loudest, and sometimes crassest, voices are constantly shouting to be heard, being reminded of your fallibility keeps you grounded. It doesnt matter if the fault for getting fired rests on your own shoulders or bedrngnis - its proof that youre not invincible.Getting let go is a reminder that life doesnt always go as planned, and that thats okay. It gives you the chance to appreciate what you still have and the people who will be by your side through thick and thin.It takes you outside your comfort zoneTheres truly nothing like being booted to get you outside your comfort zone. Whether you were reluctantly trudging along or whether you truly loved your work, no longer having that role sets you outside where youd been.While this may sound terrifying, and it honestly can be in the moment, its also a fantastic way to get a clearer picture of who you are and what you want.It pushes you to take actionIts easy to put off trying to find a better job or taking your side hustle full time because youve become comfortable and complacent. I know this because Ive been there too. Its hard to turn down killer benefits, healthcare, and a steady paycheck for the potential uncertainty of going for it on your own.Getting fired is the push (or really, the shove) to really start evaluating what it is you want and where you want to go.Theres no greater motivator than not having that safety net. Its often a crutch and gives you the perfect excuse when youre feeling lazy or dont feel like putting in the effort towards finding a better job.Personally, it took me being let go earlier this year for me to fully finalize my plan and get my act together to turn my side hustle into my full-time gig.It teaches you what you do and dont wantIn your personal life, a breakup allows you to sit back and reflect on what went wrong and what worked so that you know what you wa nt to look for or avoid for next time.Being fired does the exact same thing. It might be that you hated having to write press releases and reach out to media contacts, but you loved planning the overall communications strategy. It could also be that you obsessed over getting to be creative and design marketing materials, but would rather someone else handle the strategy side.Whatever it may be, understanding more clearly what it is you loved about your previous roles, and what you loathed, will allow you to find a job thats a much better fit for you than your previous one.It gives you resilienceKnowing how you respond when things get tough (and, perhaps, how your significant other responds) can be crucial to weathering the ups and downs of your life.Being able to dust yourself off and keep kicking butt after being fired proves to yourself that you can take what may come your way. Building up your resiliency gives you the strength for the next time things dont work out.While I cant g uarantee much with 100% certainty, I can promise that life is going to throw challenges your way. When that happens, youll have the knowledge that you weathered this storm and made it out stronger on the other side.It becomes the best thing thats ever happened to youRecently, I posted an anonymous survey in several professional groups that Im a part of on Facebook asking people whod been fired their feelings about the situation. A solid 82% said that at the time of their firing they were extremely upset.Yet 91% of that same group said that they are now happy that it happened. When asked to explain why, almost everyone had some variation on the theme that being fired gave them the opportunity to find something better or pursue something greater and they were ultimately glad to have been let go.The strength, knowledge, and clarity you will gain when you get fired will help propel you further than you ever thought possible and into areas you might never have imagined. So if youre ever in the situation where you realize that its finally happening to you - take comfort in the fact that youll look back someday and realize it was the best thing that ever happened to you.This article first appeared on The EveryGirl.

The 3 words you need to know for greater success

The 3 words you need to know for greater successThe 3 words you need to know for greater successThey say that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. After all, if we go to the trouble to copy someone else, they must have something cool going on.When Madonna came on the scene years ago, it wasnt long before girls everywhere were dressing like her. Madonna had an original look, and fans couldnt get enough of it.The same held true for Michael Jackson fans. Everywhere you looked, youd see dudes moon-walking. Or kids wearing big, oven mitt sized gloves on one of their hands. Michael was unique. He had a look, sound and style all his own.I know of a somewhat successful landscape painter who developed his entire style by copying a more notable painter.Beginning artists and most lay people probably think the artist is great. However, most professional landscape painters and educated collectors can easily spot the artistic appropriation.It is better to fail in originality than to succee d in imitation. - Herman MelvilleWe all want to be like our heroes. The problem is that our heroes are one of a kind. They stand out due to their uniqueness, talents and originality. We cant copy our way to the top, we have to leverage our authentic selves.Our challenge is to discover and develop our passions and talents. Then, we must find a way to originally and authentically share them with the world.- - - Figure out how to stand outA lot of creative people hone their skills until they reach a point of proficiency or mastery. And then they stop.Attaining a masterful level is important because quality matters. But masterful execution of your creative work doesnt assure that youll stand out.Walk into a classical painting atelier, and youll see masterful sketches and paintings of the human form. Students study Charles Bargue plates and plaster cast drawings, sight/size renderings of models, in-depth color mixing, values, brushwork, etc.There are a lot of phenomenal, highly skilled , atelier trained painters out there today. Im happy about that, because the classical approach had been marginalized by the growth of abstract and modern art.The only problem is that a lot of academic, atelier trained artists produce similar work. It all looks kinda the same. No doubt beautiful, skillfully rendered artwork, but not terribly original.Seth Godin is a popular author, blogger and absatzwirtschaft expert. Forbes.com reviewed his book, Purple Cow Transform Your Business by Being Remarkable, and noted the followingSeth Godin says that the key to success is to find a way to stand out - to be the purple cow in a field of monochrome Holsteins.If you want to be successful in life, you have to figure out how to stand out. Its a noisy, frenetic world out there, and everyone is screaming, Look at meIf Madonna and Michael Jackson had pursued more conventional images and songs, they probably wouldnt have attained super-stardom.Of course, being different for difference sake, is no t enough. There are plenty of dreamers out there, acting bizarre and trying to shock us with their weird behavior, bad language or off the wall antics.There has to be quality behind the originality. If Michael Jackson couldnt dance and sing well, no amount of glitter and makeup would catapult him to fame.- - - Its somewhat counterintuitiveSo what do you need to do? Lets say you have the talents and skills. How do you stand out?There are three words you need to know that can help you achieve greater success. Those three words areDo the oppositeIts somewhat counterintuitive. Normally, we study how other people became successful, and then we try to follow the same path. Its a logical strategy and to some degree, it works.For example, maybe your sister has a terrific job at Google, working as a full-stack, computer programmer. She went to college and grad school, got her computer science degrees, and is now pulling down a six-figure income.Your sisters path to success can be copied. I n fact, a lot of people follow this educational path. Sure, for many there is student debt accrued, but they also land good jobs.However, if you want to be that purple cow and stand out from everyone else, you need to bump it up a notch. Thats where do the opposite comes into play.This short clip from Seinfeld hysterically drives home the power of do the opposite.- - - I didnt stand out at allWhen I first got into blogging, I wanted to attract more followers. So, I studied what all the experts expoused.I examined what top bloggers were doing. Everyone recommended having a lead magnet on your blog, which is basically some kind of bribe or free gift for signing up to your newsletter or email list.I created two, free e-Books for new subscribers. I noticed a lot of bloggers using pop-ups, so I installed one on my blog, too. I bought a popular WordPress theme used by a top blogger, because I wanted to be successful like him.The free eBooks I used to entice subscribers with.Before long, my blog had all the bells and whistles, but it also looked exactly like everyone elses blog. I didnt stand out at all. I blended into the landscape of similarity and mediocrity.My blog posts were also fashioned like all the top bloggers. I incorporated those infernal listicles and bullet points. I departureed sharing the same kind of advice as everyone else.In my desire to be like other top bloggers, I forgot about my own unique experiences and authenticity.I got a few hundred followers, but I think they just signed up because they felt sorry for me. Eventually, I came to terms with the fact that I was just like every other aspiring blogger. I was unoriginal and boring. Definitely not a purple cow.Do what you cantOne day I finally decided to ignore all the gurus. The minimalist in me hated pop-ups, busy website design, and obnoxious gimmicks to lure readers in. I redesigned my website with more white space and less noisy distraction.I dumped the lead magnets, free stuff, pop-ups an d give-a-ways. I focused on improving my writing by hiring a coach. I did a lot of thinking about what I wanted to do with my blogging.A lot of bloggers add taglines that say, I help people to They were taught by other bloggers and experts that in buchung to succeed in blogging, you have to solve other peoples problems.No doubt, writing useful content to help people solve problems, will attract some attention. Especially if you have strong qualifications and experience to back up the advice and solutions you offer.What I realized, however, is that you can also entertain people with your blogging. Some of my favorite blogs dont solve problems for me. They entertain me. They fascinate or inspire me.Consider the hugely popular YouTube personality Casey Neistat. This guy has over 9 million followers. He basically creates awesome videos about his travels, experiences, etc.What he doesnt do is hit you over the head with lame pop-ups, or pleas to subscribe by offering a free eBook or fil e download. He doesnt anesthetize you with listicles or re-tread articles telling you to get up early or eat more kale.Instead, he entertains us. Casey Neistat stands out because hes an original and his videos are cool to watch. Sure, he slips in some great messages here and there, so in a way, hes helping us. But mostly, hes entertaining and inspiring us.Check out this awesome video Casey did titled, Do what you cant.Casey Neistat is definitely an original. Even his website breaks from what everyone else is doing. Talk about minimalismDo the oppositeThere are some things in life that we should all be doing. Treat people with kindness and dignity. Pull our own weight. Be there for our kids. Obviously, if everyone else is being thoughtful and kind, that doesnt mean we should be thoughtless and mean.However, in so many aspects of our lives, if we did the opposite, wed probably grow considerably. Wed move closer to our goals.Author Steve Sample, from his bestselling book, The Contraria ns Guide to Leadership, has this to sayAristotle noted that, when carpenters wish to straighten a warped board, they dont put it in a jig that simply holds it straight rather they put it in a jig that bends it in the opposite direction from that in which it is warped. After a week or two in this reverse-bending configuration, the board naturally springs back to a straight shape when it is released from the jig.Think about what your life would look like if you did the opposite of some things. Instead of vegging out on the couch, do the opposite go work out.Dont get seduced by the couch Go do something coolInstead of taking your wife for granted, do the opposite. Buy a small journal and every day, for a month, write the reasons why you love her. Only, dont give it to her on Valentines Day or her birthday. Do the opposite give it to her on a plain, old Monday morning.Do the opposite at work. While everyone else is bitching about the job or the boss, why dont you ersatzdarsteller down a nd get more work done?Stand out from the crowd. Not because youre a brown noser to the boss, but because no one else is putting in a stand out effort. Whether you love or hate your boss or job, doing the opposite of whining and minimal effort will get you ahead.How about that blog of yours? Why not redesign it so it doesnt look at all like everyone elses blog? Adopt a minimalistic look, or maybe a totally unique, new design.As a creative, consider the work youre producing. Does it stand out? If not, try doing the opposite of what youre currently doing. Switch things up.Im doing that right now with my cartoon work. I prefer fine line, black and white cartoons to saturated, color cartoons. Color tends to mask the beauty of sketchy, cross-hatching and detail. So, Im doing more black and white cartoons.Color cartoons probably stand out more online. But Im doing the opposite. Maybe my cartoons will stand out more, because they dont look like all the colorized cartoons?Speaking of cartoon s, they were part of my solution for more original, authentic blogging. I started to illustrate my own articles, instead of using the Unsplash stock photos that everyone else is using.Bam When I began adding my own cartoons to blog posts, they immediately stood out more. In my blind efforts to copy top bloggers, I forgot all about my own, unique talents. Like cartooning.How about you? What unique talents or unexpected skills could you bring to your digital life? What could you be doing that nobody else is doing?Experiment. Try new things. Dont be afraid to risk. If you crash and burn, maybe youll lose some fans. Just dust yourself off, and try again. Next week, the new stuff you try just might attract a whole new group of fans.Take Casey Neistats advice and do what you cant. Also, learn to embrace the three words you need to know for greater successDo the oppositeYou just might start something big. Something original. Something authentic, and totally you. How cool that would beBefor e you goIm John Weiss. I draw old school, handcrafted cartoons and write about life. Get on my free email listherefor the latest cartoons and blog posts.Thisarticlefirst appeared on Medium.

How to Write a Cover Letter for an Internship [+Example]

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Early Retirement Is an Option for Some Employees

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